Men’s Club May 4th, 2026, Update

May is finally here with the amazing burst of colors as flowers, trees and lawns make a big comeback after a long, chilly winter. We are all just waiting for those warmer days and rumor has it, they are coming soon!

Celebrations abound this month with May Day, Kentucky Derby, Cinco de Mayo, birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, etc. Even the Moon is celebrating with different planets in our nighttime skies. Enjoy your days and nights!
May 3-5 (Early Evening) Half-moon hangs near Mars
May 5-6 (Pre-Dawn) Eta Aquarids meteor shower – best view after moon sets 4 AM
May 12 – Full Moon – Flower Moon
May 13-14 – Moon passes near Saturn – (gibbous moon)
May 18 – Waxing crescent moon pairs with Venus – Hour after sunset
May 19-20 – Moon moves between Venus and Jupiter
May 27-31: Mercury returns low in NW sky just after sunset
May 31 – Second Full Moon – Blue Moon
Recent Activities
Easter Egg Hunt – Saturday, 04Apr26 – Clubhouse
The BP Men’s Club sponsored an Easter Egg Hunt on Holy Saturday, before Easter. Thank you Jimmy Mastria for coordinating this event. A surprise visit by the Easter Bunny highlighted the event. Dozens of kids and parents enjoyed the hunt at the ClubHouse. Plans are already beginning for next year!
Upcoming Events
Tuesday, May 5th – Cinco de Mayo – 5 PM – Clubhouse
Join us in a cocktail hour celebrating Cinco de Mayo. Bring a cocktail and a light snack. We will be meeting just prior to the start of the weekly Setback League games. Come enjoy some music, friends and beverages. All are welcome!
Wednesday, 27May – Pickleball – Pickleball Courts – 9AM
Officially Starts – Every Wed, Sat & Mon
Wednesday, 27May – NBYC Wednesday Night Sailing – 6 PM
Bring friends, chairs and beverages to our beaches and watch the races in the Niantic Bay.
 
Thursday, 28May – Executive Meeting – Clubhouse – 7 PM
BP Men’s Club Executive Meeting
 
Friday, 05Jun – BP Men’s Club Membership Meeting – Clubhouse – 6 PM
For our paid members and for those wanting to be members. Pizza and beer provided as we discuss the BPMC status and the upcoming summer season. Remember dues are only $30 for the year.
Fri 12Jun – Bocce Team Selection – Clubhouse – 7 PM – (Every Friday 9 AM)
Please contact Sherrie Weiss to rejoin the league or to be a new member. bpsher@sbcglobal.net. Please remember that spots are limited, so sign-up early. Our custom is to prioritize previous members. However, new people are added each year. We also need subs, so please consider this role if you are not on a team.
Mon, 06Jul – Golf Tournament – Great Neck CC – 10:30 AM
Neighborhood News

Marie E. Garrow Obituary

Marie Ella Garrow, 92, of Vernon passed away on April 21st peacefully at home with her cherished husband by her side. She was the beloved wife of 59 years to Bernard Garrow and a devoted mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She was born in Rockville on February 12th, 1934, a daughter of Edward and Louise Schneider.

She was predeceased by her beloved parents, sisters, and brothers. She leaves behind her husband, Bernard Garrow of Vernon, son Edward (Cindy) Garrow of Somers, daughter Arlene Garrow of Niantic, and son John (Rhonda) Garrow of Ellington. Six grandchildren, Logan (Hannah), Brian, Colin (Cami), Thomas, Jenna, and Jaela, as well as one great granddaughter Madelyn.

She grew up on the family farm before working at Duo-Set Processing as the shipping & receiving manager, where she met her future husband. As she started raising her family, she transitioned to a school bus driver for the town of Vernon for many years. She enjoyed spending time with her daughter and family at the beach and being in the water and sunshine. There are many memories of trips to Martha’s Vineyard and Cape Cod, where she opened her heart to any and all. Sunday night dinners were special times with her family, laughing and playing games.

From a young age, her faith was the foundation of her life. At an early age, she gave her life to the Lord. She was a longtime member of the Apostolic Christian Church of Ellington, where her quiet strength, kindness, and steadfast belief touched many.

Her greatest joy and purpose was always found in her family. As a mother, she guided with wisdom and compassion. As a grandmother and great-grandmother, she poured out endless love, creating memories that will be remembered forever. She held a special place in her heart for her grandchildren, nieces, and nephews, loving each of them deeply and unconditionally.

Calling hours will be held from 5 to 8 p.m. at the Longview Fellowship Center, 34 Middle Butcher Rd., Ellington, CT, 06029, on Thursday, April 23, 2026. Her funeral will take place at the Apostolic Christian Church, 34 Middle Butcher Road, Ellington on Friday, April 24, 2026, at 10:15 AM. Burial will follow in Ellington Center Cemetery. In lieu of flowers memorial donations in Marie’s memory may be made to the Apostolic Christian Church of Ellington, 34 Middle Butcher Rd., Ellington, CT 06029. Ladd-Turkington & Carmon Funeral Home in Vernon has care of the arrangements. To leave a condolence, please visit: http://www.carmonfuneralhome.com/

Obituary of James M. Lynch

James Michael Lynch, 80, of Niantic, CT, beloved husband of the late Angela Lynch, died April 3, 2026, at Lawrence + Memorial Hospital following complications associated with Parkinson’s disease. Born on April 19, 1945, in Springfield, MA, he was the son of the late James and Johanna (Kennedy) Lynch, who emigrated from Dingle, County Kerry, Ireland. Jim lived in Glastonbury, CT for 30 years before retiring to Niantic.  He is survived by his daughter, Connie Mabli (James) of Sudbury, MA and his son Brendan (Lara) of New York City, his sister Eileen Onofrey of North Port, FL, five grandchildren: Sean, Claire, Maura, Caitlin and Bridget Mabli, and several nieces and nephews and their families. He was predeceased by his brothers-in-law, Daniel Keefe, Robert Keefe, Jack Keefe and Chuck Onofrey and sisters-in-law Mary Lou (Faust) Keefe and Connie Keefe and nephew, Douglas Keefe.

Jim graduated from La Salle University, Philadelphia, PA, and spent his career as the CFO of Purcell Associates, a civil engineering firm in Glastonbury.  He was an active member of the Glastonbury Democratic Town Committee and the Glastonbury Board of Finance. Jim loved spending time in Ireland, New York City and Niantic where he and Angela welcomed visitors and hosted many parties.

Jim was thankful for the support of Dr. Elena Bortan and Jessica Lawton PA-C at the Chase Family Movement Disorders Center in Mystic, CT.  Their support and guidance throughout his illness was immeasurable.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, April 10, 2026, at 10:00 am at SS. Isidore and Maria Parish in St. Paul Church, 2577 Main Street, Glastonbury.  Burial will be private in Holy Cross Cemetery, Glastonbury. Calling hours will be held on Thursday, April 9, 2026, from 4:00 pm to 6:00 pm at the Mulryan Funeral Home, 725 Hebron Ave., Glastonbury.   In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s memory may be made to the Sons of Erin – Scholarship Fund 22 William St, Westfield, MA 01085. For online condolences, please visit: http://www.mulryanfh.com/

American Flags

There is a container on the back patio of the ClubHouse for old and tattered American flags, thanks to our Veterans and especially Bob Guenther. Please do not throw them in the trash and let them be properly taken care of by your Vets.

re
Membership
Dues are only $30 again this year. A Zelle payment is an acceptable option. Contact Dave Twedt for more information. Please join us for 2026!
You can contact John Kycia- BPMC Membership – to join or renew your memberships.
Welcome back returning/new members:
Carl Cianci
Dan Lemieux
Sean Rancourt
Dues update
This year dues (still only $30) may be paid by electronic transfer from your checking account using Zelle. Many local banks offer Zelle, including Bank of America, Chelsea Groton, Berkshire, Citizens, TDBank and Webster. We’ve tried it and it works great. Send to 860-710-2974. Of course, cash, or checks payable to Black Point Men’s Club are still fine, please send or deliver to Rick Diachenko or Dave Twedt (12 Bellaire Rd).
Build Community, Have Fun, Enjoy Black Point,

Rick

Adjustments to Black Point Mens’ Club Calendar – See *

Sun 08JanLittle Christmas – Christmas Decoration Take Down
Sun 08 FebSuper Bowl – CancelledClub House

6 PM

Tu 17FebMardi Gras – Shrove Tuesday – Conflict w/ SetBackClub House

5:30 PM

Sun 15MarSt Patrick’s Day – CancelledClub House

1 PM

Fri 20MarSpring Vernal EquinoxMain Beach

4 PM

Sat 28MarFriends BanquetClub House

5 PM

Sat 04AprEaster Egg Hunt Club House

Noon

Sun 05AprWomen NCAA Final –  Cancelled UCONN out & EasterClub House
Mon 06AprMen’s NCAA Final – UCONN – Cancelled no-one stepped forwardClub House
Tu 05MayCinco de Mayo – Party before off-season SetbackClub House

5 PM

Wed 27MayPickleBall Starts – Every Wednesday, Saturday, MondayTennis Courts

9 AM

Th 28MayExecutive MeetingClub House

7 PM

Fri 05JunMembership Meeting – Pizza & BeerClub House

6 PM

Fri 12JunBocce Team SelectionClub House

7 PM

Fri 19JunBocce League StartsBocce Court

9 AM

Su 21JunSummer SolsticeMain Beach

5 PM

Fri 26JunTrivia NightClub House

7 PM

Sat 27JunSummer Vibes – ???Club House

??

Sat04Jul51th Annual Kazoo Band – Parade PicnicClub House

10 AM

Sun 05JulCorn Hole TournamentClub House

3 PM

Mon 06JulBlack Point Golf TournamentGNCC

Noon

Wed 15Jul“Biology of Eel Grass – Dr Jamie Gaudy – UCONNClub House 

6:30 PM

Th 16JulSetback TournamentClub House

7 PM

Wed 29JulMystic Noank Community BandClub House

7 PM

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Murder Mystery = Year OffClub House

6 PM

Fri 31JulWomen’s Club BingoClub House*
Sat 01AugBeach Bash – Mass ConnFusionClub House

6 PM

Story Story Night Club House

6 PM

Sat 08Aug52nd Annual BP Road RaceClub House

9 AM

Sat 15AugMusic Era Trivia Night – Conflict w/ Zoning Board Fri 15AugClub House

7 PM

Sat 22AugKaraoke NightClub House

7 PM

Fri 28AugBad Dad/Mom Joke NightClub House

7 PM

*
Sat 05Sep5th Annual Cardboard Boat RaceMain Beach

2 PM

Sun 06SepFish Bait Classic – Sailfish RaceSouth Beach
Fri 11SepBocce Championship Tournament Bocce Court

9 AM

Fri 11SepBocce Awards BanquetClub House

6 PM

TBD Where’s the Beef – Members Only (Date sat 19Sep cancelled)Club House

6 PM

*
Mon 22SepAutumnal EquinoxMain Beach

6 PM

*
Fr 25SepBon Voyage Dinner for those going West or SouthClub House

7 PM

Sun 01NovEarly Veterans Day CelebrationClub House

7 PM

Sun 29NovChristmas Tree Decorations – Beach Club House Community Entrances

2 PM

Sat 12DecSanta at BP  – Need CarolersClub House

1 PM

Wed 16DecChristmas Early Bird Luncheon – Members OnlyLocal Restaurant

2 PM

Mon 21DecWinter Solstice Main Beach

4 PM

*
Th 31DecMidnight walk into waterMain Beach

Midnight